I’m assuming you guys want to start a good conversation and not just a conversation so my answer will speak to that. The best way to start a tinder conversation is to say something interesting. Learn How to Get a Date on Tinder . Now how do you do that? You see what interests her!Look at her profile and then talk about something you both know something about . But don’t just read the profile read, the photo! Lets take this example: Read the profile! So obviously you can see she likes languages, probably an environmentalist, and she’s educated. That last one on the list is really important! Oxford commas isn’t something most people know about off the top of their heads (an oxford comma is the final comma after a list in a sentence btw). This is a big trap that a lot of girls use. Most guys would probably open up with something dumb like ‘oh I took a semester of French in high school’ or ‘so…you really like trees eh?’ Read the picture! What does her picture tell you besides she’s pretty? You should see right away that this is a fiesty girl that loves ripping up losers that don’t give her the respect she deserves. You should also see that she takes care of herself and is probably very active outdoors probably into hiking or rock climbing or both. I would also infer that she enjoys traveling quite a bit. More on reading the picture What do they tell you? We can infer from her profile that this is an educated, active, girl that probably enjoys ripping guys that don’t respect her enough to put in the effort into shreds. How do you start a conversation then? Now that we’ve figured what she wants we need to speak to that. So, I would open up with something like: Hey there, I see you like French. I went to France last year with some buddies and it was pretty great! We went hiking in the French Alps, visited the Palace of Versailles, and of course spent a day at The Louvre! [photo with me doing one of those things] What’s your favorite thing to do in France? What do you see in my opening? You notice I didn’t mention the Eiffel Tower! That’s because most seasoned travelers consider well known tourist spots like that to be uncultured and ‘too touristy’. I’m not kidding! Seasoned travelers tend to look down on casual vacation tourists. You’ll also notice that I included an oxford comma in my opening. I’m showing her that I’m right up there with her insofar as my knowledge of grammar! So that’s how you start a good conversation! Test your conversation skills with this quiz
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